Lady bitz on Pinterest

I opened up a Pinterest account (June 2018).

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According to Technopedia.

Pinterest social media website that allows users to organize and share images and videos from around the Web. Images uploaded by users are called Pins and may be organized into pinboards, which may be customized, themed and followed by other users. Users can also like or repin content shared by other pinners….
I really do not keep up with all the social media platforms. Having said that I do really like Pinterest. One can post I–mean pin but generally do not comment on everything , yay for that.

My Pinterest is linked to my WordPress blog, if you hadn’t had a chance to take a peek.

I try to keep my Pinterest in the same spirit as my blog. Topics for women; about our femininity; minds, bodies & spirit.

I hope this inspires other women to find their own feminine power. Take what you need to move forward from where you are and leave the rest. It is important to trust in ourselves to share our sacred knowledge. Try not to judge your process but navigate and discover your way through.

My intent is to celebrate our individuality, where we are at. I believe we are stronger together as a sisterhood. I feel compelled to engage, discuss and enjoy the ride down the rabbit hole and am always surprised and delighted with what I find.

What started me on this journey? I was told that women could have nine different types of orgasms. Not only did it put a smile on my face but it also sent me on a research journey. I was not sure about this statement, but this inspired me!

Hence my first Pinterest board was born. “orgasm for women within my first two weeks I had 150K views. I thought to myself how much I didn’t know about my own anatomy, my own body and how it works. It showed me, that I really was not alone. In addition I was shocked at how little I really knew.

As women we talk a lot about many different things, but this never really came up. So I started to ask delicate questions to some of the women in my “close” circle. The conversations surprised me just as much.

You can imagine this raised a few eyebrows! That’s how my journey started. The women that I talked with encouraged me to share what I was researching. We had some embarrassing conversations, and laughed at ourselves as we shared. I found the conversations awkward at first. Then came the acknowledgement that women wanted to have some of these conversations. This put me more at ease and conversations opened up and went to a whole new level.

I am more interested in mind, body, soul work, honouring the uniqueness of being “me”. I am no longer okay with just decorating, painting and accessorizing the body of “me”. This is a process of redefining everything I believed to be true. What beauty means to me, and knowing “me” from the inside out.

Redefine pleasure and bliss in life. Standing in those moments, being able to drink it in and just breathe. Everybody and every body knows exactly what’s right for them, and it’s not the same for everyone. Discovering my own muchness.

Learning to being okay in my own company, with my own sexuality. Finding courage to discuss uncomfortable topics and empowering femininity.

Unapologetically yours,

Lady-bitz

P.s- the pictures are moment of my life/family that make me smile.

Nyx Aura

Nyx Aura means loosely, Night Wind.

I love to create Music, Art, Poetry. Being creative is like oxygen for me. I get to add my own flair in my unique way while nourishing my being.

I consider myself an Artisan. Fitting into boxes and doing what I am told to do, is not my thing. I have been hiding my art, music, it is now time to start to showcase my work.

Art

Making art has been a journey of trust with myself. A focus which has been scaled back to only exactly what I love. The colours I love (Red, Black, White, Yellow) and variations of them. Roses, I love roses! Every variation I can imagine up artistically on the canvas with different mediums. I just can not paint enough of them.

Music

Music is cathartic and allows me to empty my minds energy through lyrics. I love the sound of blues, punk, rock and grunge. I love unique voices rather than bands. I also have a lot of fun at karaoke.

I am in the process of creating and processing original music. Development of this page is something I look forward to constructing in the near future. This is also where the poetry aspect comes in.

Moving into new territories in life, I seem to have more questions and interests which send me to do personal interest research and learning. I am discovering a whole new side of myself, my more authentic side and have decided to change my life.

To my surprise, I am a lot more introverted or have become more introverted, then I realized. I have no desire to fit in or put my image out to the world as my experience is that the stories are more important than image.

My intent is to write about subjects that effect growth, life, health, wealth mindset, family and women’s issues. Hence the name “Lady Bitz”, bit by bit!

Unapologetically Me!

Getting Clear By Navigating and Sculpting a New Existence

I have this recurring feeling that, although life was good something just wasn’t quite right. I found it to be persistent, like a twitch you can’t control.

Sometimes it was super quiet whisper and sometimes it roared. Regardless it was a recurring theme I needed to get to the bottom of.

It turned into this rabbit hole. This process opened up loads of questions and then more questions. Although I was not clear on exactly the cause, it inspired me to move towards finding what happiness looks like for me.

I really started looking at broad topics and themes in life that I could incorporate more happiness. I applied the microscope metaphor to myself, who I thought I was, who I really am, where do I want to be. Focusing in and out on these topics and themes some needed to be adjusted, some did not. How do you know unless you do the work? I took topics and themes that were broad and that I wanted more of, then I got uncomfortably specific and then excitedly challenged.

I tried many different things on for size and if I didn’t like it I took it off (and continue to). This is also a continuous process. Thinking about how one knows they don’t like something unless they try new things and being okay with the fact that if I tried it and it just didn’t sit right it was time to move on.

I was going to stop wasting precious time doing things that didn’t make me completely happy.

It was okay to change directions mid path! I could say at least I tried and found out it wasn’t for me rather than being left wondering what if!

I’m now okay with not fitting into conventional boxes. Okay with NOT wanting what other people want. That was so far from my own personal truth. I was now secure to be me, on my own terms. I came to realize that one loses people on this path. As well that it will really show you unexpected truths.

I will take accountability for my decisions.

I would no longer allow people to project their beliefs, perceptions or thoughts of how or who I should be. This small change really put me at odds with some. I had to learn to be comfortable being uncomfortable if there was to be real change.

Getting serious about sculpting new existence.

Bit by Bit

Wow in a million years I never thought I would be doing this! Me Blogging? What am I thinking……..

I guess that is where I will start! What am I thinking?

I am perfectly imperfect!

If you are reading this to find fault you will find it! However if you are reading to find relatable content, thoughts and raw honesty you will find that and I hope it serves you better.

I try to push people up and I am hoping that you will do the same.

I am thinking that I am a kindred spirit, not content to just exist. I go through my life challenging my beliefs when they do not serve me.  I know I am not alone in my journey, however sometime the experience can feel or I precieve it like that.

So if you are thinking in your head “sister speaks for me” you may have found that same place I keep searching for. So I, stopped searching and decided to make my own space damn it! My little slice of where, what, how, when, why (the who bit is all of you); where I can laugh at myself for flying my freak flag loud and proud. Where I am open to change my mind, because I am no longer in the place I was, and that I am no longer that person I was the previous day. Not everyone can understand this it seems.

Through out this process I hope I can inspire myself and others.

I will challenge my self to share my Art, Music, Poetry, Relationships. Explore how to utilize my creative abilites to become and entrepreneur and build my life on my terms because this corporate rat race is no longer for me. I am teaching myself  new skills, that will lift me higher in my  relationships, art, voice, music, poetry, business and internet marketing. I will share my success and failures and each are relivant to succeed!

Unabashedly yours,

Kelly Kelly